After drop-off, my son’s teacher asked, “Why is your son absent today?”
She described how he was threatened to keep the secret and showed signs of trauma from the whole experience. Naelli explained the nightmares, the anxiety, and the panic he felt. She recommended that I keep sole physical custody of Theo.
She said supervised visitation for Maya should only happen if Maya completed parenting classes and individual counseling about her judgment and boundaries. Naelli emphasized that Maya needed to show real understanding of child safety before getting more access to Theo. Her testimony was balanced but firm.
She wasn’t trying to punish Maya forever but she made it clear that Theo’s safety had to come first. The school district submitted a written report to the court. Hassan took the stand to talk about it.
He acknowledged that the school had process failures that let Theo get removed from campus repeatedly without proper parent notification. Hassan testified about the new protocols being put in place. He described the biometric check-in system, the emergency exit alarms, and the automated parent alerts.
He took responsibility for the gaps that helped this situation happen. Hassan was honest that the school should have caught this sooner. While this didn’t excuse what Maya and Derek did, it showed the judge that multiple system failures occurred and people were working to fix them.
Sophia provided a written assessment about Theo’s trauma symptoms and treatment needs. The judge read through her letter carefully. Sophia’s report outlined that Theo was experiencing anxiety, nightmares, and trust issues that matched what happens to kids who get coerced and exploited.
She wrote that his recovery needed stability, consistent routines, and continued therapy twice a week. Sophia recommended against any custody changes during his acute treatment phase. She suggested that visitation with Maya should be slow and based on Theo’s comfort level.
The judge asked a few questions about the assessment and Sophia answered them clearly. She explained that forcing contact before Theo was ready could make his trauma worse. After all the testimony and evidence the judge took a 15-minute break to review everything.
Those 15 minutes felt like hours while I sat there trying not to think about what would happen if the judge gave Maya shared custody. When the judge came back everyone stood up. The judge issued a ruling granting me temporary sole physical custody of Theo.
Legal custody would stay shared for now, meaning we both still had a say in major decisions, but Theo would live with me full time. Maya got supervised visitation 2 hours per week at a CPS facility. The visits depended on her enrolling in and actually attending parenting classes and individual counseling.
The judge ordered a review hearing in 3 months to check on progress and think about expanding visitation. I felt relieved but I also knew this was just temporary. The permanent custody decision would come later after seeing how everything went on the criminal side.
Things moved faster after that. Derek and Uncle Mike got arrested and formally charged based on all the evidence. Derek faced charges of conspiracy to commit child labor violations, contributing to the delinquency of a minor, forgery, and child endangerment.
Uncle Mike faced multiple counts of child labor violations, child endangerment, and coercion. The police took them both in for booking and processing. They each got released on bond with strict conditions.
The conditions included no contact with Theo or me at all—no phone calls, no messages, and no showing up anywhere near us. Detective Price called to tell me about the arrests and said both men looked pretty shaken up when they realized how serious this was. Over the next two weeks the plea negotiations got more intense.
All three defendants started to understand they were facing trial with really strong evidence against them. Uncle Mike’s attorney worked out a deal first. Uncle Mike agreed to plead no contest to child labor violations and child endangerment.
His sentence was 2 years probation, $25,000 in fines and money to pay back that would get split among the minor victims, mandatory labor law training, and a ban from supervising any workers under 18 ever again. Derek’s plea deal came next. He accepted 3 years probation, 200 hours of community service, mandatory counseling, and a permanent ban from any child care or supervision roles with kids.
Roxanna called to update me on both deals. She said these were reasonable outcomes given that both men had no prior criminal records and were pleading guilty. After I heard about the plea deals Naelli called with a recommendation.
She said I should enroll in a parenting class focused on co-parenting after trauma. She explained that even though I didn’t cause any of this, learning strategies for supporting Theo while managing my own anger at Maya would make my position stronger in court. At first I felt resistant because it seemed like I was blamed for something I didn’t do.
But Naelli helped me understand that showing willingness to improve my parenting skills could only help my case. Courts like to see parents who are open to learning and growing. I signed up for an 8-week course that met on Wednesday evenings at a community center.
The class was called “Co-parenting Through Crisis” and it covered things like keeping kids out of adult conflicts, managing your emotions around your ex, and creating stability after trauma. Three weeks after the initial incident the school district rolled out Hassan’s new security system across every building. I got an email explaining how it worked.
Every student now scanned their fingerprint when they entered the building, not just an ID badge. The emergency exit doors got connected to an alarm system that sent instant alerts to the main office and security staff if anyone pushed through them. Parents got automatic text messages anytime their kid left school early or was marked absent from class.
The district also made a new rule that schools had to verify parent contact information every 3 months and any school that didn’t follow the rule would get penalized. Hassan called me a few days after the roll out and asked if I would come speak at a district training session about why these changes mattered from a parent’s point of view. I agreed to do it because talking about what happened to Theo might help other families avoid the same nightmare.
Theo kept going to therapy with Sophia twice every week. The progress happened slowly but I could see small improvements over time. He went back to his regular classes without having panic attacks in the hallway or classroom.
The loud sounds still bothered him though. Anytime he heard construction equipment or heavy machinery outside he would freeze up and his breathing would get fast. Some nights he still couldn’t sleep and would come into my room saying he had bad dreams about the construction site.
But Sophia pointed out the good things that were happening too. Theo raised his hand in math class to help another kid who was confused about fractions. He joined the after-school dinosaur club that he used to love before all this happened.
Sophia told me that recovery doesn’t happen in a straight line; some days would be better than others and that was completely normal for what Theo went through. Maya finished four weeks of her court-ordered parenting class and started going to individual counseling like the judge required. Her supervised visits with Theo kept happening every week at the CPS facility.
