My Mother Told My Kids They Weren’t “Important Enough” For Christmas Gifts. She Didn’t Realize I’ve Been Paying Her Mortgage For Years. So I Cut Her Off And Triggered A Foreclosure. Am I The Jerk?
A Cold Welcome on Christmas Eve
8:00 on Christmas Eve. Snow hammered my windshield as I turned into my parents’ driveway.
Their tree blazed through the front window. My kids bounced in the back seat.
Laya, seven, held the glitter card she’d made for grandma like it was treasure. Evan, five, squeezed his stuffed fox and whispered,
“Santa comes here too, right?”
Inside, cinnamon and pine hit us. My mother’s hug was quick.
My father nodded over his drink. My sister, Cara, lounged on the couch with a wine glass.
Her daughter, June, was already at the tree tearing into presents like it was a competition. A tablet flashed in June’s hands.
Then headphones; wrapping paper flew. She didn’t look up.
Laya skipped to the tree and tugged my mother’s sleeve.
“Grandma,”
she asked, bright and polite,
“where are ours?”
A Cruel Revelation
My mother’s eyes slid past me to the adults watching.
“Your children aren’t important enough for gifts this year,”
she said, flat as a slammed door.
Evan’s face crumpled. Laya went still, her card bending in her fist, tears rising without sound.
Cara’s mouth curved.
“Seriously,”
she added,
“why waste money on kids without a dad?”
Evan’s sob broke loose, loud and helpless. Laya’s tears finally fell, quiet and steady.
No one moved. The carols kept insisting the world was merry.
I knelt and gathered them, feeling their bodies shake against me. I swallowed whatever would have made me beg.
Taking Back Control
Then I stood, walked into the hallway by the coat closet, and pulled out my phone. My favorites list opened to one name I’d saved for emergencies: Ria, trust office.
My thumb hovered over call. The room behind me waited for my reaction.
I pressed down. Ria picked up on the first ring.
“Sadie, I’m here.”
I walked back into the living room so everyone could hear. Evan’s sobs had shrunk to hiccups in my shoulder.
Laya held my wrist like an anchor. Cara watched me with a grin that said, “I’d cave.”
My mother stood stiff, ready to blame me for the mess. I raised the phone and spoke the four words I’d practiced all week.
“Cancel every transfer now.”
The fire crackled too loudly in the sudden quiet. Ria didn’t hesitate.
“All outgoing distributions?”
“Yes, Marlene and Gordon and Cara’s.”
I kept my eyes on my mother.
“Effective immediately.”
My father froze with his drink halfway up.
“What transfers?”
he rasped, but his face betrayed him.
