I Sat Through A 45-minute Rant About How Much Of A “lazy Rich Kid” I Am. The Employee Had No Idea I Actually Own The Company. Should I Have Fired Him On The Spot?
I told him to think about it for exactly five minutes and then let me know his decision. Dennis sat in silence for those five minutes while Claudia checked her phone and Russell stared at the wall.
I could see Dennis’s mind working, probably calculating his finances and job prospects against the humiliation of staying here after everything he’d said. When the five minutes were up, I asked for his decision.
Dennis cleared his throat and said he’d take the severance package and resign. I nodded and told Claudia to draw up the paperwork.
I asked Dennis if he’d learned anything from this experience and he finally made eye contact with me for the first time. He said quietly that he’d learned not to judge people based on assumptions and that he should have focused more on his own performance instead of criticizing others.
I told him that was a good start and that I hoped he’d take those lessons to his next job. I also told him that despite everything, I didn’t wish him ill and hoped he’d find a position that was a better fit for his skills and attitude.
Dennis nodded and thanked me, which seemed genuine even if it was motivated by wanting to leave with the severance intact. Claudia escorted Dennis to HR to complete his exit paperwork while Russell stayed behind.
Russell said he was sorry he hadn’t dealt with Dennis’s attitude problems more aggressively earlier, but I told him he documented everything properly and that was what mattered. I asked Russell to share the story with his other supervisors as a teaching moment about the importance of maintaining professionalism and not making assumptions.
Russell agreed and asked if I wanted him to address Dennis’s complaints about me with his team. I thought about it and said yes, but to keep it factual rather than defensive.
I told him to let them know that I do visit the floor regularly, that I do care about working conditions, and that I’m always open to constructive feedback delivered through appropriate channels. Russell said he’d handle it and left to get back to his shift.
I sat alone in the conference room for a few minutes thinking about the whole bizarre situation. Part of me was angry at Dennis’s disrespect, but another part understood that he’d constructed a narrative to explain his own dissatisfaction without having complete information.
Later that afternoon I called a brief meeting with my management team to discuss what had happened and what we could learn from it. I told them the full story about Dennis’s lunch rant and the subsequent meeting and asked for their honest feedback about whether there was truth in any of his complaints.
My production manager said that communication from leadership could always be better and that maybe I should consider more visible floor walks instead of trying to blend in. My HR director suggested we implement more regular town halls where employees could ask questions and raise concerns directly.
My CFO pointed out that we’d had good financial results this quarter and maybe we could accelerate some of the facility improvements that employees had been asking for. These were all good suggestions and I told them to start working on implementation plans.
I wanted Dennis’s complaints, even if poorly delivered, to result in positive changes that would benefit everyone. That was the difference between destructive criticism and constructive feedback, and I wanted my team to understand that distinction.
Over the next few weeks I made a point of being more visible on the floor, introducing myself to workers who didn’t know me and having brief conversations about their roles and concerns. The reactions were mixed, with some people seeming nervous about talking to the owner and others appreciating the direct access.
I implemented monthly town halls where anyone could ask questions, and while attendance was sparse at first, it gradually improved as people realized it was a safe space for honest dialogue. We accelerated the parking lot repaving and upgraded the breakroom coffee to a better quality brand, two of Dennis’s minor complaints that were easy wins.
I also worked with Russell to identify high performers who deserved recognition and we implemented a quarterly awards program with small bonuses for top achievers. None of these changes were earthshattering, but they showed that I was listening and responsive to legitimate concerns.
Several workers mentioned that they’d heard about what happened with Dennis, and while the details were probably garbled through the rumor mill, the general message had gotten through that talking trash about the owner to a stranger might backfire spectacularly. I never saw Dennis again after that day, but I heard through the grapevine that he’d found another job at a smaller manufacturing plant across town.
I hoped he’d learned something from our encounter and would approach his new position with a better attitude. The whole experience had taught me some valuable lessons too about the importance of clear communication and the danger of letting employees construct false narratives about leadership.
I realized that my preference for quiet observation had some benefits but also created information gaps that people filled with assumptions and speculation. Finding the right balance between being accessible and being overbearing was tricky, but I was committed to improving.
