My Boyfriend And Best Friend Thought They Could Mock Me Behind My Back. So, I Decided To Become My Best Friend’s Stepmom. Was This Too Far?
A Message from the Family
Monday morning I got a message on social media from someone named Jerome, Khloe’s uncle. I remembered him from family events—tall guy, always told bad jokes.
The message said he heard what happened. Wanted me to know Khloe’s behavior didn’t represent their family. They raised her better than that. He said Bruce was devastated, really struggling, but Khloe was starting to understand what she did. Starting to see the weight of it.
I stared at the message. Didn’t know what to say back. Jerome added that he always liked me. Thought I was good for Khloe. Kept her grounded. He was sorry she threw that away.
I typed a simple thank you. Sent it. Put my phone away.
I folded the letter back into its envelope. Put it in the drawer of my nightstand under some old receipts and a random phone charger. Not throwing it away felt important somehow. Like keeping proof that she at least tried to own what she did.
My sister came over that evening with Chinese takeout. We ate on the couch while some reality show played in the background. She asked if I’d heard from Khloe. I told her about the letter.
She set down her chopsticks. Asked if I was going to respond. I said no. She nodded. Said I didn’t owe Khloe anything. Not forgiveness. Not acknowledgement. Not even a reply. She said some people think forgiveness is required to move on but that’s garbage. Sometimes the healthiest thing is to just let people sit with what they did.
I asked if that made me a bad person. She looked at me like I was crazy. Said absolutely not. Said Khloe betrayed 10 years of friendship and laughed about how stupid I was. Said that deserves consequences. Real ones. Not just a nice letter where she feels better about herself.
We finished eating. She stayed until midnight talking about nothing important. Her new job. Our parents. The neighbor who plays music too loud. Normal stuff. It felt good. Like I could be a regular person again instead of someone constantly thinking about betrayal and revenge.
Rebuilding
3 days later Bruce texted. Asked if we could meet for coffee. I stared at the message for 10 minutes before responding. We agreed on Thursday afternoon. Same coffee shop where we’d first run into each other, or where I’d staged running into him. The irony wasn’t lost on me.
I got there early, ordered my usual, sat at a table by the window. Bruce walked in exactly on time. He looked better than at the park. Less tired. His shoulders weren’t as tense. He got his coffee and sat across from me. We made small talk for a minute. Weather. Traffic. Nothing real.
Then Bruce sat down his cup. Said he’d been spending time with Khloe. Trying to work through everything. My stomach twisted but I kept my face neutral. He said she was genuinely sorry. Really struggling with what she did.
I wanted to say she should struggle, that she earned every bit of guilt. But I just nodded.
Bruce continued. Said they’d had some hard conversations. Really hard. About the affair, about me, about why she made the choices she made. He looked older talking about it. Tired in a way that went deeper than lack of sleep.
Bruce said Khloe admitted something during one of their talks. Said the affair made her feel powerful. Desired. Like she was winning some competition she didn’t even know she was in. She never thought about the real damage. Never considered that I was an actual person with feelings. Just saw me as an obstacle between her and what she wanted.
Bruce’s voice got rough saying this. He looked out the window. Said he was disappointed in her. More than disappointed. He didn’t know he’d raised someone capable of that kind of cruelty.
I felt something crack in my chest. Not for Khloe. For Bruce. Because he was trying so hard to love his daughter while hating what she’d done. He said their relationship would never be the same. He’d forgive her eventually because she was his daughter but trust was gone. Maybe forever. The easy closeness they used to have was dead.
I reached across the table, touched his hand. He looked at me. His eyes were wet. I pulled my hand back. This felt too intimate for what we were now. Whatever that was.
I asked the question I’d been avoiding. Asked if he’d decided what he wanted regarding us.
