“My Brother Stole My Identity And Racked Up $5,000 In Debt. My Parents Told Me To Pay It Off Or Move Out. I Left, And Now They’re Facing Foreclosure. Aita?”
Her words twisted like a knife. “Sacrifices?” I snapped, the edge in my voice sharper than I intended. “I’ve been the one making sacrifices for years, keeping this place afloat. When does he take responsibility?”
Dad’s eyes narrowed, his jaw tightening. “You’ve got a good job,” he said flatly. “You can afford it. Stop turning this into a battle.”
The injustice burned through me. I turned to my brother, who finally lifted his gaze, bored and smug. “You’re dragging all of us down,” I said, my voice shaking. “You blew 10 grand, and I’m supposed to fix it? Explain yourself.”
He gave a lazy shrug, leaning back in the chair. “Not my fault things got rough,” he said, his tone laced with sarcasm. “You just think you’re better than everyone.”
His words hit like a slap, but I refused to let them land. “This isn’t about me,” I fired back. “You’ve crossed a line, and I’m done cleaning up after you.”
He rolled his eyes and returned to his phone, tuning me out completely. I turned to Dad, desperate for reason. “He’s not even trying,” I said. “Why am I the one paying the price?”
Dad stepped forward, his voice suddenly booming. “Because you’re part of this family!” he shouted. “Either you help, or you pack your things and go. And don’t come back!”
The room fell silent. Mom gasped, reaching for his arm, but he shook her off. My heart pounded, the betrayal sinking in.
I’d expected a fight, but not an ultimatum—not a demand to sacrifice my future or lose my home. Tears stung my eyes, not from grief but from the raw ache of realization. Once again, they’d chosen him over me.
Mom tried to ease the tension, her voice trembling. “Paige, please,” she murmured. “We just need to stay united. He’ll figure things out eventually.”
I shook my head, my throat tight with frustration. “You’re not helping him,” I said. “You’re enabling him. You’re letting him drag us all down, and I’m the one paying the price.”
My eyes shifted to my brother, still glued to his phone, oblivious to the chaos around him. “You don’t even care,” I said, my voice breaking. He didn’t answer, didn’t even glance up.
I turned and left, each step echoing against the hardwood floor. When I got back to the guest house, the air felt heavier, colder. The demand—$10,000 to clean up his mess—pressed on me like a weight I couldn’t carry anymore.
I sat on the edge of my bed, my thoughts spinning. Years of contributions, months of covering the mortgage, all the sacrifices I’d made—none of it mattered to them. I wasn’t a daughter; I was a safety net.
My brother’s debts, his careless detachment, their endless excuses—it was a loop I’d never escape as long as I stayed. The guest house that once represented stability had become a trap, anchoring me to their dysfunction. I thought about my work, the campaign I was leading, the promotion I’d been fighting for.
Staying would cost more than money; it would cost my peace, my future, maybe even my sense of self. I grabbed my phone and called Lindsey Wade, my closest friend since college. Her voice came through warm and grounding. “Paige, talk to me. What’s going on?” she asked.
Everything came pouring out: Dad’s ultimatum, the 10 grand, my brother’s indifference, Mom’s pleading. My voice cracked as I said the words out loud. “They chose him over me.”
Lindsey didn’t hesitate. “You don’t deserve that,” she said firmly. “You need to get out, Paige. For good.”
Her words landed with force, echoing the truth I’d been avoiding. Staying meant repeating the same heartbreak: more guilt, more demands, more of myself slipping away. I took a deep breath, staring at the walls that once felt safe but now felt suffocating.
Leaving would hit my savings—I’d have to start over—but staying would cost far more: my sanity, my independence, my peace. “Can we talk tomorrow?” I asked, my voice steadier now. “I need to plan how to leave.”
“Anytime,” she said without hesitation. “I’m here.”
For the first time in weeks, I felt something other than exhaustion: a flicker of hope. The guest house wasn’t my home anymore; it was the chain I was finally ready to break. Dad’s ultimatum had drawn the line, but I was the one who would decide where to stand.
The next morning, I met Lindsey at a coffee shop downtown to plan my escape. The place hummed with conversation and the smell of espresso, but all I could hear were Dad’s words from the night before, his ultimatum echoing in my head. I laid everything out for her: the $10,000, the screaming, the feeling of being completely abandoned by my own family.
Lindsey leaned in, eyes steady and voice firm. “You can’t keep living like that,” she said. “They’re taking advantage of you. Move in with me. My apartment’s small, but I’ve got space.”
Her offer hit me like air after drowning. I hadn’t even considered it before, but suddenly the thought of moving in with her felt like freedom—a real way out. I wrapped my hands around my coffee cup, mentally crunching the numbers.
Sharing rent with Lindsey would cost around a thousand dollars a month, nearly half of what I was paying toward my parents’ mortgage. I’d still need to keep up the $1,500 until I fully disentangled myself, but it was a start. My savings meant for a down payment on a home would take a hit—I’d been so close, maybe a year away from buying a place.
Now leaving meant delaying that dream by another year or two. But staying meant more guilt, more fights, and more of my brother’s chaos consuming everything I’d worked for. I looked across the table at Lindsey’s concerned face and nodded. “It’s worth it,” I said quietly. “I have to get out.”
Later at work, I grabbed lunch with Colin Hayes, a colleague who’d turned into a trusted friend. Between bites of his sandwich, I told him everything: Dad’s demand, the fight, the ultimatum. Colin frowned, shaking his head. “You’re doing amazing here,” he said. “You’ve got a real shot at that senior strategist role. Don’t let them pull you down.”
His words grounded me. My job was the only area where I wasn’t constantly failing someone else’s expectations. “You’re right,” I said. “It’s time I start focusing on my own life.”
Colin smiled, his tone calm but certain. “Leaving’s the right move, Paige. You’ve got this.” That conversation sealed it.
Over the next few days, I began quietly preparing to leave, careful not to alert my family. I spent evenings scrolling through rental listings, narrowing my options to Lindsey’s apartment and a small studio nearby in case her roommate situation changed. Her one-bedroom in central Colorado Springs was cozy, walking distance from the agency, and affordable if I tightened my budget.
At night, I packed in silence: clothes into duffel bags, books into boxes, all labeled “storage” so my brother wouldn’t snoop. Each piece I packed felt like a small reclaiming of control. Meanwhile, nothing in the main house had changed.
Mom and Dad carried on like nothing had happened, and my brother drifted through his days without a care. I called a local moving service and booked a small van for the end of the week. The guy on the phone quoted me $400 for a quick trip across town—a small price to pay for freedom.
I winced at the thought of dipping into my savings, but the expense felt like a small price for freedom. To avoid suspicion, I kept my usual routine: breakfast with Mom, quick check-ins with Dad about work, even a polite smile tossed my brother’s way. On the surface, nothing had changed.
