My Entitled Family Wants to Take My House and Give It to My Brother, Even Though They Kicked Me Out.

Their denial had been strong, but Sil’s entitlement was stronger. I’ve had many a thought of lightsabers clashing over this drama—Sil clad like a bimbo Sith with a lightsaber that looks like a giant lipstick or something like that.

I imagine there’s a wealth of puns and jokes to be had there, but I really didn’t bother to think much more detail about it. But as you can imagine, things only got worse because Sil kept looking for other ways to get what she wanted.

She kept bringing up ads for used campers and RVs to try and get my parents to buy one to live out of so they could have the main house, and she kept doing this no matter how many times they told her to stop. She even tried to say my parents should just buy an RV and have a life on the road like normal old people do; that was stupid even for Sil.

The opposite was suggested by my parents—that Dan and Sil buy a camper themselves to live out of it instead. Sil basically said she shouldn’t have to do that since she’s the mom.

She pretty much lorded the fact that she thought she had total parental authority over everyone’s heads because the kids in the house were all hers. When Sil didn’t get her way, she actually took her baby and left the house to disappear for several days.

They knew she was fine because her phone was still working and she was responding to texts with short but passive-aggressive answers. When she came back, she was only more embittered because nobody caved to her demands while she was away.

Sil also refused to go to church, but Dan went with our parents and took his kids along as well, save for the youngest since Sil refused to let him take the baby anywhere. Personally, I don’t go to church; I believe in God and all that stuff, but I just don’t like church. Besides, it never did me any good growing up.

Just so everyone understands, a lot of this information came from Dan and my parents, so I’m just telling what I know. Shit really hit the fan when Dan suddenly called out his wife as a cheater in March.

This shocked us all because we thought he was a complete pushover to her, but no, he’s not—at least not anymore. You all know how he treated me when I was on his bad side; well, his wife wasn’t spared that at all.

He started putting pieces together about her deceit after finally pulling his head out of his ass and secretly got DNA tests for all his kids. Three of the kids are his, but the youngest one, the baby, was not.

For the record, Dan and I both have pretty dark straight hair that’s almost black; same with our parents. Sil’s hair is straight and pretty dark too, but the baby’s hair is lighter and a bit curly.

At first, Dan just thought it was because of the baby’s age. Sil kept playing it off and said that it would darken in time, but the baby’s hair never got darker.

I guess that was Dan’s biggest clue. He confronted his wife with the DNA result in front of our parents, and she broke down sobbing that it was a mistake.

Sil pulled out all the DARVO stops of denying, trickle-truthing, and gaslighting, but Dan had none of it and actually had done more to find out about her affair than I would have ever thought. I knew he was smart; he just let himself be dumb.

He had detailed proof of her cheating with phone records, texts he got off her phone, bank records, and the DNA test. He even identified the man she’s cheating with, who is likely the father since he has much lighter colored curly hair.

The evidence against her was crystal clear, and Dan said she was so bad at hiding her affair he didn’t even have a hard time figuring any of it out once he started looking. My parents demanded that Sil leave their house immediately.

That’s when she went psycho on them all. First in just yelling, but she quickly got physical.

Police had to be called by my mother and, yeah, Sil was arrested. She scratched up Dan and my father quite a bit with her long fake nails and even harmed her eldest kid in the crossfire by hitting him hard enough to have a black eye and nosebleed when he tried to intervene.

Dan was smart enough to have his phone recording nearby when he confronted her, so the police had all they needed to arrest her for assault. Sil’s parents had to drive over to bail her out.

Then they came back for the baby, Sil’s stuff, and her car as well. A couple days after Sil got bailed out, she showed up at my house because I was apparently next on her shit list.

As soon as I opened the door, she went on a delusional rant where she called me out about posting on Reddit then said I was the entitled bane of her existence. I’m not sure, but I think she might have been high on something because this felt extra crazy for her and her eyes didn’t look right.

She claimed mothers with young children are the most sacred thing in the world, then went on yelling that giving up my house shouldn’t have been too much to ask for because supporting the family was the least I could have done. She said if I had, then her family would still be together.

When I tried to talk while she was spewing all that out, she actually attempted to shove me and cover my mouth. She even had her hand poised like she was ready to scratch me.

Well, that went about as well with me as you can expect. I’m not exactly one to be threatened and told her I’d call the police if she didn’t take her hands off me right that moment.

I also told her I’d got it all on my doorbell camera. She started panicking the moment she heard “camera.”

Then I ended up verbally savaging her to the point she was backing off my porch. I told her she had some gall to call me entitled when she’s exactly that.

She didn’t work for anything she had anymore, cheated on her husband and got pregnant from her affair partner, made my mother do most of the parenting for her children, spent Dan’s money until they were in a financial hole, and acted entitled to my home to the point of trying to steal it. I called her entitled x1000 and said that she’s a greedy bitch who is blinded by narcissism.

Then I told her to stop blaming me for her own actions and to never show up at my house again. Being told all that was pretty much all Sil needed to hear before jumping back into her car then peeled out and sped off.

This was finally the straw that broke the camel’s back for me. Now that she was separated from Dan, I ended up finally going to the police and filing a report on her for harassment and the assault she’d done on me last year, and her putting her hands on me at my front porch only added to it.

The police have it all on record now, and I gave copies of the video to Dan for his divorce lawyer. And yes, I did file for a restraining order against Sil.

It was easily granted because it was obvious the woman is unhinged. She’s not made a social media post about me since that I could see, but that’s just because she put her profile on private.

I hope her blame ship against me has long since sailed; either way, she’s left me alone. Sil was still with her affair partner during the divorce.

At the time, I had no real idea of what kind of man he is, but any person who monkeys with someone else’s spouse and even has a child with them really doesn’t have a lot of morals to begin with. Once the divorce was underway, Sil admitted that Dan just wasn’t man enough for her anymore because he couldn’t afford to give her the lifestyle she wanted.