My Ex-husband Abandoned Our Daughter At Her Dance Because His Stepdaughter Is “More Fun.” He Forgot My Brother Is A Family Court Judge.
He actually laughed.
He said, “Francine I’m not risking anything i’m reporting legitimate concerns about a child’s welfare to the appropriate authorities that’s not just allowed it’s encouraged.”
He added, “The fact that Warren’s been lying to the court about his finances that’s just a bonus they’ll discover on their own once they start looking.”
The House of Cards Collapses
After I hung up, I felt something I hadn’t experienced in two years: power. It was not the ugly kind that Warren wielded with his threats and money, but the clean sharp power of finally standing up for my daughter. I wasn’t going to cry over his cruelty or beg him to be a better father.
I was going to use the system he’d threatened me with to ensure he faced consequences for the first time in his privileged life. I looked in on Bridget one more time. She turned in her sleep and the moonlight through her window illuminated her face.
Even in sleep, there was a sadness there that shouldn’t exist in a 10-year-old. I made a promise to her sleeping form.
I said, “This is the last time he breaks your heart without consequences baby mommy’s done playing nice.”
Sunday morning, I started my documentation folder. By the time Bridget woke up, I had two years of bank statements printed, fifty screenshots from Warren’s Instagram, and a timeline of every missed visit typed up. The war for my daughter’s emotional well-being had officially begun and I was finally armed for battle.
Monday morning came with a sense of purpose I hadn’t felt in years. I dropped Bridget at school, watching her walk through the entrance with her shoulders hunched, trying to be invisible. The other girls were still chattering about the dance, comparing photos on their phones, but my daughter kept her eyes on her shoes.
Melody tried to comfort her, bless that sweet child, but Bridget just shrugged.
She said, “Her dad got sick.”
It was another lie to protect Warren, even after what he’d done. At work, I cleaned teeth with mechanical precision while my mind raced through everything Jerome had set in motion. He texted me at 7:00 a.m.
He wrote, “We are turning garrett is very interested keep your phone close.”
By lunch, I had three missed calls from an unknown number. The voicemail was from a forensic accountant named Deborah Winters.
She said, “Mrs coleman Judge Garrett has asked me to review some financial documents regarding your ex-husband please call me at your earliest convenience.”
Tuesday was when things got interesting. Warren was apparently living a double life that would make a soap opera writer jealous. While claiming to the court that he made $40,000 a year, he’d actually closed three commercial property deals in the last six months alone.
Each was netting him commissions over $30,000. His Instagram, which he’d forgotten I could still see through a mutual friend’s account, showed a new Rolex, weekend trips to Miami, and a country club membership that cost more than my annual rent. But the real revelation came Wednesday morning.
Deborah Winters called me directly.
She said, “Mrs coleman in reviewing your ex-husband’s financial declarations versus his actual tax filings we’ve discovered some significant discrepancies he’s been using a shell company to hide income it’s registered in Delaware under the name WC Premium Properties LLC.”
I asked, “Is that illegal?”
She answered, “Hiding assets from family court absolutely lying on financial affidavit that’s perjury the IRS is going to be very interested in Mr coleman’s creative accounting.”
Wednesday afternoon, while Warren was at his weekly sales meeting at the Marriott downtown, his carefully constructed house of cards began to fall. First, an IRS agent named Timothy Chen called his office requesting five years of financial records for an audit. His secretary Louise later told me Warren went white when she forwarded the message.
Then, family court sent a notice of emergency hearing for Friday regarding substantial misrepresentation of financial resources and child support recalculation. But the universe wasn’t done with Warren yet. His lawyer, Richard Decker, had received the court documents and done his own investigation.
What he found made him demand an immediate meeting with his client. Thursday morning, Warren strutted into Decker’s office, still trying to play the victim. According to Decker’s paralegal, who happened to be my cousin’s best friend, the conversation was explosive.
“Warren you told me you were broke during the divorce,” Decker said, sliding papers across his mahogany desk.
He continued, “You said you could barely afford the minimum child support.”
Warren answered, “Everyone hides money during divorce.”
Decker responded, “Not everyone commits tax fraud to do it you claimed Bridget as a dependent while paying almost no support you filed false financial affidavit with the court you have three investment properties you never disclosed do you understand what you’ve done.”
Warren apparently laughed.
He said, “Come on Dick you’re my lawyer fix this.”
Decker answered, “I can’t fix felony perjury Warren based on these real numbers you owe approximately 47,000 in back child support plus interest the IRS wants 31,000 in corrected taxes and penalties and this is just what they found so far.”
That’s when Warren finally understood the magnitude of his situation. Louise said he stumbled out of the building looking like he’d been punched. He tried calling me seventeen times that afternoon, but I didn’t answer once.
Thursday evening brought the crescendo. Stephanie called me, her voice shaking.
She asked, “Francine I need to ask you something has Warren been hiding money from the court?”
I chose my words carefully.
I said, “The court is investigating his finances.”
She asked, “Why?”
She continued, “Because I just found bank statements for accounts I didn’t know existed three investment properties two in his name alone one in that shell company we’ve been living in a rental putting off having a baby because he said he couldn’t afford it he told me you were bleeding him dry that the child support was killing us financially.”
I answered, “Stephanie he’s paid full child support exactly three times in two years.”
The silence stretched so long I thought she’d hung up.
Then she said, “Then that bastard he made me feel guilty for wanting to buy Harper new school clothes he said Bridget was getting everything while Harper had to make do god Francine I’m so sorry the dance everything i didn’t know harper’s been asking why Mr warren took her instead of Bridget she said Bridget was crying at school on Monday.”
I said, “Your daughter has more emotional intelligence than her stepfather.”
Stephanie replied, “Not for long i’m calling my lawyer in the morning and Francine I have records too receipts bank statements even recordings of him bragging about his deals i’ll testify if you need me to.”
Final Consequences and a New Beginning
Friday’s emergency hearing was scheduled for 2:00 p.m. Warren showed up in his best suit, still trying to maintain his successful businessman facade. I wore my scrubs, having come straight from work.
The difference was intentional. Jerome had advised me, “Let the judge see who’s actually working for a living.”
Judge Garrett, a woman in her 60s with steel gray hair and no patience for lies, reviewed the evidence for exactly fifteen minutes before speaking.
She said, “Mr coleman in 23 years on this bench I’ve rarely seen such blatant contempt for this court’s authority you’ve committed perjury tax fraud and willful non-payment of child support while living a luxury lifestyle your arrears are calculated at $47,318 to be paid immediately or face contempt charges your support going forward is reset to 3,000 per month based on your actual income any failure to pay will result in immediate arrest.”
Warren’s mouth opened and closed like a fish gasping for air, but Judge Garrett wasn’t finished.
