My Family Mocked Me For Taking The Bus To Thanksgiving. They Didn’t Know I Own The House They Live In. Am I The Jerk For Taking The Turkey And Leaving In My Private Helicopter?
“We’re just concerned about you. Your father and I lie awake wondering if you’re going to be okay.” I turned to face her fully.
“I’m going to be fine, Mom.” “How can you say that? You’re 30 years old.”
“31.” “31, sorry. And you have nothing to show for it.”
“No car, no property, no husband, no stability. Just this fantasy about an aviation business that clearly isn’t generating income.” The kitchen fell silent, except for the bubbling of pots on the stove.
“I have stability,” I said quietly.
“Where?” Dad spread his hands.
“Show me the stability. Show me one concrete thing that proves you’re not wasting your life on some pipe dream.” Emma smirked into her wine glass.
My phone buzzed insistently. I checked it again.
Another message from operations, this one flagged urgent. I typed back: Proceed as scheduled. ETA 45 minutes.
“More logistics?” Marcus air-quoted with his fingers.
“What kind of logistics require this much phone attention on Thanksgiving?” “The kind that keep things running smoothly.”
“Things?” Jennifer repeated.
“You’re always so vague about what you actually do.” “I coordinate transportation services.”
“Like Uber?” Aunt Patricia’s eyes lit up.
“Are you an Uber driver, honey? There’s no shame in that. Gig economy work is perfectly respectable.” “I don’t drive for Uber.”
“Then what?” “Can we just focus on dinner?” I interrupted, checking the turkey temperature.
“This needs another 20 minutes.” But they couldn’t let it go.
They never could. We moved to the living room for appetizers, and the Inquisition continued.
Emma positioned herself as the successful daughter, the one who’d made something of herself. She casually mentioned her car payment, $1,800 monthly, as if it were pocket change.
She talked about the parking garage at her condo building, climate-controlled and secure. “That’s more than your rent, isn’t it?” She asked me with feigned innocence.
“Your car payment would be more than your entire monthly rent.” “I don’t have a car payment.”
“Exactly, because you can’t afford one. It’s okay to admit it, you know. Not everyone can be successful.” Dad was on his third whiskey.
“I just don’t understand what went wrong. We raised you the same as Emma. Same schools, same opportunities.” “He thrived, while she was always different,” Mom added sadly.
“Remember how she’d spend hours at the airport as a kid watching planes? We thought it was cute. Didn’t realize it was obsessive.” “I liked aviation. Still do.”
“Liking something and building a viable career from it are two different things,” Uncle Frank offered sagely.
“I liked basketball as a kid. Didn’t mean I should have pursued the NBA.” Marcus laughed.
“Maybe if her aviation business was real, she’d at least have a company car by now.” “Do you even have business cards?” Jennifer asked.
“A website? I tried to Google you once. Nothing came up.” “We maintain a low profile.” I smiled.
“Low profile?” Emma scoffed.
“That’s code for ‘doesn’t exist.’ Face it: you’ve wasted almost a decade on a fantasy. Meanwhile, real life is passing you by.”
The Call to Fleet Command
My phone rang. This time I glanced at the screen: Captain Rodriguez, Fleet Command.
“Excuse me,” I said, stepping toward the hallway.
“Really?” Emma called after me.
“You’re taking a call during Thanksgiving?” I answered on the third ring.
“Go ahead, Captain.” “Ma’am, we’re 40 minutes out from the coordinates you provided. Weather is clear. Should we maintain current approach or circle?”
“Maintain approach, standard formation. Landing zone is the large backyard at the address I sent. Confirm GPS coordinates.” “Confirmed. Three helicopters in formation. ETA 38 minutes to your location.”
“Perfect. See you soon, Captain.” I ended the call and returned to the living room.
Everyone was staring. “Work call,” I explained simply.
“Work?” Dad repeated flatly.
“Right, your imaginary aviation business.” “What could possibly require a call on Thanksgiving?” Mom demanded.
“Can’t your logistics wait one day?” “Unfortunately, no.”
Emma stood up, her expression triumphant. “This is ridiculous. You’re delusional. You’re pretending to be someone you’re not, and it’s honestly sad. We’re your family. You can drop the act.”
“I’m not acting.” “Then prove it,” She crossed her arms.
“Prove you have this big, important aviation business. Show us one shred of evidence.” The room went silent.
Everyone was watching me now, waiting for me to crumble, to admit the truth they’d already decided was fact. I checked my watch: 3:42 p.m.
“Thirty-three minutes. You’ll see soon enough.” “See what?” Dad stood up too, his face flushed with alcohol and frustration.
“What are we going to see? Another bus? Some fake business card you printed at FedEx?” “Paul,” Mom touched his arm.
“Maybe we’re being too hard.” “Too hard? We’ve been too soft! We’ve let her live in this fantasy world for 8 years.”
“Eight years of pretending to run a business while taking the bus to Thanksgiving dinner.” He turned to me.
“It’s time to grow up, accept reality. You’re not a success. You’re not a business owner. You’re a 31-year-old woman with no car, no assets, and no future.” Marcus had his phone out.
“I’m Googling her company name right now. Trans Global Aviation. What do you bet nothing comes up?” He typed, waited, then frowned.
“There’s a company by that name, but it’s a huge operation. International. They have contracts with governments and Fortune 500 companies. That can’t be yours.” “Nothing, right?”
He looked up. “That’s not your company. That’s just coincidence. Same name.”
Jennifer leaned over his shoulder. “It says they’re valued at $2.8 billion. Private ownership. Primary operations in emergency medical transport, executive travel, and disaster relief.”
“See?” Emma pointed triumphantly.
“Same name, different company. She’s probably a receptionist there or something. That’s the aviation logistics she does.” “I don’t work reception,” I said calmly.
“Then what? Mail room? IT support?” My phone buzzed.
Another text from Captain Rodriguez: 28 minutes out. All systems nominal. “You still haven’t proven anything,” Dad said.
“In fact, you’ve proven our point. There is a Trans Global Aviation, but it’s obviously not yours. You’re just borrowing the name, or you work there in some entry-level position.” “I founded Trans Global Aviation 8 years ago,” I said quietly.
“Started with one leased helicopter and a business plan. Built it from there.” The room erupted in laughter.
