My Father Signed Papers Saying I Wasn’t His Son. I Used Them When He Sued Me For Support Now He Is..
I thought about the lies he had told about my mother and the photos he had used to blackmail me. I thought about the accusations of infidelity that the DNA had proven false.
I thought about 10 years of silence while he spent money that should have been mine, never once reaching out or checking to see if I was alive or dead. I typed my reply slowly.
“According to the affidavit you signed, I’m the son of a tennis instructor. You should ask him for money.”
I hit send, then I blocked the number. The story didn’t end quietly; it couldn’t because Gerald hadn’t just sued me, he had exposed himself.
Court transcripts are public record in Connecticut. Within a week, the details of the hearing were circulating through the tight-knit, gossipy world of New England old money.
The country club set that Gerald had spent his whole life trying to impress learned that he had committed fraud against his own father’s estate to disinherit his son. They learned that he had signed documents swearing I wasn’t his child, then turned around and demanded money from me because I was.
People in those circles talk; they gossip over golf games, dinner parties, and charity events. Within a month, everyone who mattered in Gerald’s world knew exactly what he had done.
The word “fraud” spreads through high society like wildfire, and nobody wants to be associated with a fraud. His remaining friends abandoned him.
The country club he had belonged to for 40 years revoked his membership two weeks after the trial. His last investment partner filed a lawsuit accusing him of misrepresenting assets in a deal from six years earlier.
The lawsuit named specific instances where Gerald had inflated numbers to secure funding. It was a civil case, but the discovery process unearthed emails that got forwarded to the State Attorney General’s office.
Gerald ended up in a state-run care facility with fluorescent lighting, linoleum floors, and meals on plastic trays. It was the kind of place funded by the same taxpayer programs he had spent his whole life voting against.
Three months after the trial, I got a call from Meredith. The fee sanctions had been processed.
Gerald’s remaining assets, a small investment account he had tried to hide, had been liquidated to cover my legal costs. The check was already in the mail for $22,000.
It wasn’t the millions he had stolen from me, but it covered what I had spent defending myself against his nonsense, plus a little extra. I donated the extra to a scholarship fund for first-generation college students.
These were kids trying to make something of themselves without family money backing them up. It felt appropriate.
A few months later, a package arrived at my house from a lawyer handling Gerald’s affairs. The facility had limited storage, and Gerald had been forced to surrender most of his personal effects.
Someone had decided to send a box of items to me. Most of it was junk—old papers and random trinkets.
But at the bottom of the box was a photo album. I opened it.
The album was full of pictures of me: me learning to ride a bike, me at graduation, me winning a science fair. For about 10 seconds, I wondered if maybe he had cared after all.
Then I turned one of the photos over. It was a picture of me at 10 years old holding a first-place trophy.
On the back, in Gerald’s handwriting:
“Investment cost to date $42,000. ROI pending.”
I flipped through more photos, and it was the same thing. There were dollar amounts, cost calculations, and performance notes.
He hadn’t kept them because he loved me; he kept them as receipts. I took the album to the fireplace that night.
I built a fire, fed the photos in one by one, and watched them burn. Six months after that, I got a promotion at work as the head of my department.
The announcement went out in the company newsletter and got picked up by a few industry publications. My name was in the news for the right reasons.
A week later, a letter arrived with no return address, but I recognized the handwriting. Gerald had somehow gotten access to a pen and paper.
The letter was three pages of rambling accusations. He said I had stolen his legacy, turned everyone against him, and abandoned him when he needed me most.
He demanded that I visit him. He demanded that I apologize.
He demanded that I acknowledge everything he had sacrificed to raise me. At the bottom, he had written:
“You owe me. You will always owe me. I made you.”
I read the whole thing. Then I walked to my home office, pulled out the DNA results I had kept in my files for over a decade, and made three copies.
I mailed one to the lawyer who had sent me the box of Gerald’s things with a note explaining what it was and suggesting it be added to any official records. I mailed one to the District Attorney’s office that had received the referral from Judge Morrison in case they ever decided to pursue the perjury angle.
The third copy I kept. Then I took Gerald’s letter, folded it neatly, and mailed it back to him with a single post-it note attached.
The post-it said:
“Per your 2014 affidavit, I’m not your son. Please direct all future correspondence to the tennis instructor.”
I never heard from him again.
