My Girlfriend Dumped Me Right Before I Proposed Because Her Coworkers Told Her To. Then I Collapsed And Found Out I Have A Brain Tumor. Is She Back For Me Or Just Out Of Guilt?
Story 2: The Sister’s Betrayal
The Discovery
It hurts me that she slept with someone I loved, but it hurts me a lot all the things I read in those chats. How she enjoyed watching him compare me to her, or how she asked him about personal things about our relationship just to laugh at it.
She’s dead to me, and my parents know it. I don’t even care if I’m a bad person like them. This is something I can’t forgive, and I don’t even feel bad for my reaction.
Edit: I posted half of the message.
Edit: My mother was disgusted and my father was angry, but they only comforted me until I left their house. I don’t know what they talked to my sister about afterward, and I don’t want to ask, but they will probably cut contact with her.
She just said that it was a mistake, and in the voice message, she only talked about how weak she feels mentally and that she has been having anxiety attacks. Even though I didn’t hear the full audio because it lasts over 4 minutes, I was getting even more pissed off with her just wanting to be the victim, so I stopped the audio almost at the end. She never explained why she said all those ugly things about me because everything was about her having anxiety attacks.
As a token of appreciation, and because I also like it when the OP uploads the whole gossip, I will put here half of the message I sent to my sister. The message I sent her was really long, and I cut out the parts where I talk about very private things or when I insulted her to not make the post too uncomfortable. Because I was really hurt and angry at that moment, and I talked about many personal things in the text. I will put the copy of the message at the end.
If someone talks Spanish, I’m sorry if it sounds weird in English; I did my best to translate it, and I had to remove a lot of parts.
Message to My Sister
“I’m not interested in hearing any of your excuses. I believed you when a problem happened with your ex-friend group because I really trusted that you would never do something like that. But now I understand why everyone leaves you alone, and you deserve it.”
“What you did to me is crap, and you know it. But you didn’t care because you spent a year being the [expletive] without any shame. And now that I found out everything, you went days without talking to me because you are a coward. And on top of that, you still don’t care about what you did to me.”
“You’re only talking to me because Dad probably stopped talking to you and you’re running out of money, so you want to fix this crap so he gives you money again. You are always an idiot, but don’t you think it’s a lot to be my boyfriend’s second woman? How little respect do you have for yourself? We’re sisters.”
“I don’t even know what’s going on in your head because I don’t understand what’s wrong with you, girl. I read all the messages between you two, and you even started comparing our bodies. You’re sick, you know that? I never did anything for you to do this to me, and I loved you, but everything turned out really well for you because he’s with you. So enjoy that feeling and the love you two have for each other for now, because you are going to be really lonely later and you are going to go back to your cave.”
“But this time, I am not going to be there to pity you like every time I did before. Stay with him. There’s nothing that interests me less than fighting for an idiot who is surely going to leave you. But let me make it clear to you that you’re not going to hear about me again. This dies here. We are not sisters anymore. If I see you on the street, then I’m going to cross to the opposite sidewalk to not see you.”
The Aftermath
Update: They broke up. Nobody surprised.
When all of this happened, my parents scolded my sister, and she got offended and didn’t speak to our parents except to ask them for money. She asked them for money to buy things for her career, but then my aunt told my parents that my sister actually used the money to buy my ex some sneakers. My parents never gave her any money from that day on. She’s an idiot, TBH.
My parents started to pay for us to go to a private college, and the only thing we have to do is literally study. The only thing she had to do was take her studies seriously, but she didn’t. So my father got tired and hasn’t sent her money for months.
My ex saw the post because he said it went viral on Facebook, and obviously he recognized the story. He contacted me to apologize and said he knows he did wrong by hurting me like that, but my sister manipulated him and it was a total mistake. I told him he can shove his apologies.
Meanwhile, my sister and I have only crossed paths a few times, but she always avoids me because she thinks I’m going to hit her. I won’t. We’re not in the same career, so luckily we don’t see each other too much anyway.
A few days ago, she went to our parents’ house saying that she broke up with my ex—I don’t know why—and that she felt really sad and had an anxiety attack. I don’t know exactly what they talked about since I wasn’t there, but my mother told me that she told my sister that she knew what was going to happen when she slept with him. My sister justified herself by saying that they’re in love. So my mother and she just argued again, and my sister left. Now she doesn’t talk to anyone in the family except our grandmother to ask for money.
