My Husband Had Security Drag Me Out Of His Board Meeting For “Playing Entrepreneur.” Now He Works For A Company That Uses My Software Every Single Day. Was I Too Harsh?
“We’re aware of that dip, Miss Rothstein. It’s a temporary adjustment as we transition to our new platform. Once users adapt to the interface, retention will stabilize.” David said.
“But what if they don’t adapt?” Miss Rothstein pressed. “What’s your plan for user engagement?”
“Our development team is working on several initiatives, such as—” David hesitated for just a fraction of a second. “Enhanced features, streamlined workflows, better customer support. We’re listening to our users and responding to their needs.”
I watched Miss Rothstein make a note on her tablet, her expression neutral. The other investors asked a few more questions, which David handled smoothly.
Then he concluded his presentation.
“Thank you for your time and consideration. I’m happy to answer any additional questions.” David said, flashing his most confident smile.
That’s when I stood up from my seat at the back of the room. Every head turned toward me.
“Actually,” I said, my voice steadier than I felt. “I’d like to address Miss Rothstein’s question about user engagement. I have a solution.”
David’s face went pale, then red.
“Rebecca, what are you doing here?” David asked.
“You invited me,” I said, walking toward the front of the room. “You said I could present after you.”
I saw the moment he realized he’d boxed himself in. If he denied inviting me now, he’d look like a liar in front of investors; if he let me present, he’d lose control of his narrative.
“Gentlemen,” David said, his jaw tight. “Please excuse my wife. She’s been playing entrepreneur on my dime for too long and doesn’t understand how these meetings work.”
The room went silent. I felt every eye on me, and I felt the humiliation burn through my chest.
“Rebecca,” David continued, his voice taking on a patronizing tone. “This isn’t show-and-tell. These are serious business professionals making million-dollar decisions. Go home. We’ll discuss this later.”
Escorted Out by Security
Miss Rothstein spoke up, her voice cool and measured.
“Actually, Mister Chen, I’d like to hear what your wife has to say. If she’s been working on user engagement solutions, that’s precisely what we need to understand.” Miss Rothstein said.
David’s expression flickered with anger.
“With all due respect, Miss Rothstein, my wife doesn’t have the technical background or business experience to contribute meaningfully to this discussion.” David said.
“I disagree,” Miss Rothstein said. “But if you’re that concerned, perhaps we should table this conversation.”
She looked at the other investors.
“Gentlemen, I think we’ve seen enough today. Thank you for your time, Mr. Chen.” Miss Rothstein said.
David’s face went white.
“Miss Rothstein, wait. I didn’t mean—” David started.
“No, no. You’ve made yourself quite clear.” Miss Rothstein said, stood up, and gathered her things.
“You’ve shown us exactly the kind of leader you are: one who dismisses ideas without hearing them, one who belittles people instead of empowering them. That’s not the kind of CEO I invest in.” She continued.
The other investors stood as well, following her lead. David was scrambling now, trying to backpedal, but the damage was done.
“Security!” David barked into the phone on the conference table. “I need someone up here immediately!”
I stood frozen, watching everything fall apart. Within two minutes, a security guard appeared in the doorway.
“Escort Mrs. Chen out of the building,” David said coldly. “And revoke her access. She’s not to return.”
The walk to the elevator was the longest of my life. The security guard was polite but firm, his hand hovering near my elbow as if I might bolt.
We passed David’s employees, people who’d been to my home for dinner parties and who’d bought Christmas gifts for us. They all looked away.
In the parking garage, the security guard waited until I got into my car before heading back inside.
I sat there in the driver’s seat, my hands shaking so badly I couldn’t put the key in the ignition. The humiliation was crushing and suffocating.
I’d been thrown out like garbage in front of investors and in front of the board. My own husband had called security on me.
I don’t know how long I sat there. It could have been five minutes; it could have been twenty.
I was staring straight ahead, trying to breathe through the shame, when I heard a car pull up beside me. It was a silver Tesla, the same one I’d seen in the visitor parking upstairs.
The driver’s side door opened, and Miss Rothstein stepped out. She walked around to my window and tapped on the glass.
I rolled it down, my face still burning.
“I heard everything through the conference room door,” She said, her voice kind but firm. “Actually, I heard it in the room too. Every dismissive word. Every condescending tone.”
She paused.
“Get in my car. I’m about to teach your husband what happens when you underestimate the wrong woman.” Miss Rothstein said.
I stared at her.
“Why would you help me?” I asked.
“Because thirty years ago, I was you,” Miss Rothstein said simply. “A man who claimed to love me treated me like I was stupid. He dismissed my ideas and made me feel small.”
“And then someone gave me a chance to prove myself,” She continued. “Now I do the same for other women. So, are you getting in or not?”
