My Husband Used My Credit Card To Book An $8,400 Trip For His Mistress And Her Whole Family. He Thinks It Is A Work Retreat, But I Just Sold Our Condo While He Was At Work. How Should I React When He Finds Out He Is Homeless?
“Yeah, good idea.” He said.
Five days before his trip, the condo sold. I signed the papers in Margaret’s office.
Cash sale, as promised. After paying off the mortgage and closing costs, I walked away with $430,000.
I immediately transferred it to my Canadian account. That evening, I packed the last of my personal items.
Photos, jewelry, documents, clothes. Everything fit in four suitcases.
I’d gotten rid of everything else. Furniture went to charity or online buyers.
Kitchen stuff, decor, all of it gone. The condo was empty except for Daniel’s things, which I left in neat boxes in his office.
I booked a flight to Toronto for June 14th. One day before Daniel’s trip.
While he was at work that day, I’d leave. Leave the divorce papers on the counter, change my number, and disappear.
Two days before his trip, Daniel was practically vibrating with excitement. He kept checking his phone, smiling to himself.
He thought he was so close to freedom, to his new life with young, adoring Ashley and her welcoming family.
The night before I left, I couldn’t sleep. I lay next to Daniel in bed, watching him snore softly, and felt nothing.
No love, no anger, just a strange sense of finality. This chapter of my life was over.
Tomorrow, a new one would begin.
June 14th, Daniel left for work at 8:00 a.m. He kissed me goodbye.
He said he’d be late. He said he had to finish some projects before his retreat.
I watched him drive away. Then I moved.
I called an Uber and loaded my four suitcases. I took one last walk through the empty condo.
On the kitchen counter, I left a large envelope. Inside were the divorce papers, already filed with the court.
There was a letter from Margaret explaining the process and a note from me. It was short.
“Daniel, I know about Ashley. I know about the last two years. I know what you planned. The condo is sold. The accounts are empty. I’ve moved on. I hope your trip is everything you dreamed it would be. Don’t contact me. My lawyer will be in touch. Emma.” The note read.
I locked the door for the last time and left the keys on the counter next to the envelope.
At the airport, I felt light, lighter than I had in years.
As the plane took off, I looked out the window at the city where I’d spent my entire adult life.
It was where I’d built a career, fallen in love, gotten married, lost myself, and finally found myself again.
Toronto was cold when I arrived, even in June. But I liked it.
The cold felt clean, fresh. I checked into a hotel and slept for twelve hours.
The next day, June 15th, I imagined Daniel’s morning. He’d get up early, excited for his trip.
He would drive home to pack, open the door to an empty condo, and find the envelope. He would read the note.
The panic would set in. He’d call the bank and discover the accounts were empty.
He would call me and get a disconnected number. He would call Margaret and be told very formally that all communication had to go through her office.
Then he’d have to get on a plane to Paradise Bay Resort with Ashley and her family. He had to pretend everything was fine.
He had to keep up the charade that he was a successful man about to leave his wife for his true love.
All while knowing he had nothing: no home, no money, and no wife to fall back on.
I wondered how long it would take for Ashley to find out the truth. Days? Hours?
Would he confess on the trip, or would he wait until they got back and she discovered his new reality?
I spent my first week in Toronto settling in. I found a furnished apartment downtown and started my new job.
Everyone was welcoming. No one knew my story.
I was just Emma, the new marketing director from California, starting fresh.
A month later, I got an email from Margaret. Daniel had responded to the divorce petition.
He was contesting it, claiming he deserved half of everything, including the condo sale proceeds.
“He has no case,” Margaret assured me on a video call.
“The condo was purchased before marriage. It’s separate property. We have documentation. His lawyer knows this. They’re just posturing.” She explained.
“What does he want?” I asked.
“My guess? He’s angry. He wants to punish you. Or he’s desperate for money. Maybe both.” She replied.
Three months later, we settled. I agreed to give him $15,000, a fraction of what he wanted, just to make him go away.
He took it. Margaret said he didn’t have a choice.
His lawyer probably told him to take what he could get. The final divorce decree came through in September.
I was officially single, officially free. I didn’t hear from Daniel directly until November.
One email sent at 2:00 a.m. his time.
“I know you think you won but you didn’t. You’re going to end up alone. No one will ever love you the way I did. You’ll regret this.” The email said.
I read it once, then I blocked his email and deleted it.
Because here’s what Daniel never understood: I didn’t leave to win.
I didn’t sell everything and move to another country for revenge. I did it to survive, to reclaim my life, to stop being the person who made excuses for someone else’s behavior.
I did it to stop being the person who carried the weight of a relationship that had been dead for years.
