My Husband’s Mistress Showed Up With Moving Boxes To My Own House. She Thought He Successfully Stole My Deed. Should I Tell Her The Truth Before She Unpacks?

The Unthinkable Betrayal

I’m sure by now you figured out what’s happening, but if you haven’t, I discovered that my husband has been cheating on me with Cassie. She’s literally the worst person he could have done this with. He’s completely ruining our marriage, and I don’t know what he or she hopes to gain from this affair.

Anyway, let me tell you how I found out. Over the past few months, I’ve noticed Alex has been a little distant with me. When I asked him, he said there was nothing wrong, that he was just stressed at work. He’d been working a lot and doing overtime occasionally. At first, I was a bit concerned, but aside from his somewhat distant behavior, nothing else happened, so I didn’t give it much thought.

A week ago, a friend of mine told me that instead of being at work, my husband was sitting in a restaurant almost an hour away from my workplace. My friend called me thinking I was with him and wanting to meet me. She had no idea what she had just uncovered for me.

I called my husband, who told me he was at work, which made me sure something strange was going on. So I left work and drove to the restaurant. There, I saw him enjoying a date with Cassie.

As soon as I saw them, I knew it was a date and not something innocent. They looked way too comfortable together. I couldn’t hear what they were talking about, but I took a picture. I thought about confronting them, but I was so shocked that I couldn’t do it. I just went back home feeling completely numb.

A little later, my husband called me and said he was going to be working late and would get home late. I even called his coworker, who told me he hadn’t gone to work that day and had reported being sick. I knew I wasn’t a suspicious wife, so I’d never checked where he was going or what he was doing. He used that trust to cheat on me with the friend I despised the most.

The most incredible thing about all of this is that he knew how much I disliked her. Before this, he always told me I was judging her too harshly. I always thought that was a good quality of his; I saw it as him being a kind person. But I guess he always had a soft spot for her.

Obviously, after seeing them on a date, I refused to believe what I had witnessed. I tried to come up with as many excuses as I could in my head. I didn’t want to face the truth or admit that my marriage was over. Deep down I knew it, but I wasn’t ready yet to tell myself what was really happening.

I spent the next few days observing him, hoping to find something that could explain it all, but the only thing I discovered was that they were definitely having an affair. I was devastated. I didn’t know what to do. I couldn’t confront him, and I couldn’t even look at Cassie. I didn’t even want to think about her.

All I could think about was how the two of them could do this to me and how he could so easily throw away everything we had built together. It’s not like I had just met Alex yesterday; we’ve been married for a while. How could he do this to me?

Formulating a Plan

And now, I think I found a way to get some answers. I was so confused that I ended up calling my best friend, Molly, and told her everything I had seen. Molly came to see me and decided to help me no matter what I chose to do. She gave me some ideas, and they were pretty good.

But more than anything, I wanted to confront my husband and just put an end to it all. Molly followed him for two days, and yesterday she told me she saw them entering a hotel. That confirmed it was an affair, and Cassie was so jealous of me that she even went as far as taking my husband.

But I don’t entirely blame her because if Alex hadn’t wanted to cheat on me, she couldn’t have made it happen. If he were truly loyal, he would have been faithful to me no matter what. While I was trying to figure out what to do, Molly gave me an idea.

She suggested that since we didn’t know enough about the affair, we should start gathering information and evidence. Molly suggested installing hidden cameras and audio recorders, which would help us find out what they really wanted and how I could move forward. It was a great suggestion because we both thought that Cassie or Alex might be after something more than just an affair.

So I agreed to her plan, even though it meant I’d have to put up with Alex and Cassie a little longer. At this point, I want revenge for what they’ve done to me. Today we installed the hidden cameras and audio recorders, and hopefully by the end of next week, we’ll have plenty of information.

Despite agreeing to do this, I still can’t accept the fact that my husband is cheating on me with someone like Cassie. I still don’t know why he did it. I don’t know if I’m making the right choice by going down this path. Am I making the right decision, or should I just confront them and expose them once I have enough evidence? Please, I’m begging you, I need your help.