My Mil Slapped Me For Choosing My Dying Mother Over A Thanksgiving Turkey. My Husband Watched And Did Nothing. I Just Cut The Power And Canceled Their Feast, So Why Do I Feel Like The Villain?
A New Reality
A week later, Emily’s accounts were unfrozen. The police investigation concluded that her actions did not constitute a crime. The credit card was legally her own and she had every right to manage it as she saw fit. Kevin’s complaint was dismissed, and he even received a warning for filing a false report.
But Emily had no time to feel relieved. Her mother still hadn’t woken up. 48 hours passed, then 72, then a full week. Her mother remained with her eyes shut tight, her face ashen, breathing only with the help of a ventilator. Doctor Evans confirmed that she was now considered to be in a persistent vegetative state.
“Her brain stem is functional so she can breathe on her own, but the damage to her cerebral cortex is too severe. The chances of her regaining consciousness are slim.” The doctor’s voice was flat. “We can move her to a regular room for long-term care, or…” He trailed off, but Emily knew what he was leaving unsaid. “Or you can choose to withdraw life support.”
Emily stood in front of the ICU window looking at her mother. Her mother’s head had been shaved for the surgery and a long surgical scar snaked across her scalp like a centipede. She had lost so much weight that her cheekbones protruded sharply and her eyelids were sunken.
Is this really my mother? The mother who used to haggle over a few cents for a bundle of spinach at the market, the mother who would show up with bags full of food every time she visited, the mother who would secretly slip a wad of cash into her daughter’s pocket.
Emily pressed her palm against the glass. “Mom, please open your eyes.” Her voice was as brittle as a dry leaf. “Mom, if you wake up, I’ll take you to that little diner you love, the one with the clam chowder. You always said their broth was the best. Just wake up. I’ll take you every day.”
Behind the glass, her mother didn’t stir. Only the ventilator made its rhythmic mechanical sound, inflating and deflating her chest.
“Mom, please open your eyes. I’m getting a divorce now. You always said you didn’t like that family, that I was suffering too much. I listened to you, Mom. I’m getting out, so please wake up. We can live together, just the two of us. Please.”
Still no response. Emily’s eyes began to burn as if a dam that had held for years had finally burst. Tears streamed down her face.
“Mom…”
Her throat was so tight she couldn’t speak. She sank to the floor, buried her face in her hands, and sobbed. It was a cry she had held back for five long years. Forgetting all dignity, she wailed like a wounded animal. People walking down the hall glanced at her, but she didn’t care. She just wanted to cry. She wanted to vomit up all the sorrow, anger, sadness, and despair of the last five years.
She cried for a long time until a nurse came over to ask what was wrong, until her throat was raw and her voice was just a hoarse whisper. She slowly pulled herself up. She wiped her tears. She took out her phone. She opened the “Our Family” group chat. Since her last message a week ago, no one had said a word. The silence was deafening. Her last words, “You can start showing your devotion with your son’s money from now on,” hung there.
She began to type.
“I’ve sent the divorce papers to Kevin’s email. I don’t want any alimony or assets. I have no debts in my name. From now on, you can take care of your own precious family traditions by yourselves.”
Send.
Then she sent a photo: the divorce agreement, signed and dated. Finally, she added one more sentence.
“My mother is in a vegetative state. I hope you’re satisfied now. Don’t bother with any hypocritical inquiries about her health. Don’t even bother with empty wishes for her recovery. She can’t hear you anyway.”
Send.
Then she pressed the “Leave Chat” button. The chat room disappeared from her list. Her phone screen went dark. She put it in her pocket and walked toward the elevator. The doors slowly closed. Emily leaned her head against the elevator wall and closed her eyes. Her mother might never wake up again, but she had. She had finally, completely woken up from a terrible five-year nightmare.
Freedom
Three months later, the winter wind in Queens was as sharp as a knife. Emily stood in front of the courthouse wearing a gray puffer jacket. Her mother had bought it for her two years ago at a discount store.
“It’s not fancy, but it’s incredibly warm,” she had said at the time.
Emily had thought it was tacky and rarely wore it. Now it felt warmer than any other coat in the world. The court’s decision had just been handed down. The divorce was finalized. Since Emily had waived her claim to any assets, it was straightforward. The court ruled that Kevin’s $50,000 credit card debt was his sole responsibility and had nothing to do with Emily.
Furthermore, the evidence of domestic assault Emily had submitted was accepted. While Eleanor did not face criminal charges—it was her first offense and the injury was deemed minor—the court acknowledged the emotional distress Emily had suffered and ordered Kevin and Eleanor to pay her $5,000 in damages. Kevin’s affair was also substantiated by clear evidence, resulting in an additional $10,000 in damages. A total of $15,000. It wasn’t a fortune, but it wasn’t nothing either. It was enough to cover a few months’ rent and her mother’s caregiver bills.
Emily left the courthouse and walked out into the winter street. The trees lining the sidewalk were bare, their skeletal branches reaching toward the gray sky. She remembered that day three months ago in the fall when the air was thick with the smell of roasting nuts, the pale lights in her in-laws’ hallway, the blood on her lip. It all felt like something from a past life.
Her mother was now in a long-term care facility. It wasn’t luxurious, but it was affordable and specialized in caring for patients in vegetative states. Emily visited twice a week, gave her mother sponge baths, read books to her, and chattered away about her week. Her mother never responded, but Emily didn’t mind.
She was now living in a basement apartment on the outskirts of Queens. It was a tiny room, barely 200 square feet. Sunlight barely trickled in for an hour a day and when it rained the walls smelled of mildew. But it was entirely her own space. No one called her a useless, barren woman. No one slapped her for wanting to go see her sick mother. No one sat idly by playing games on their phone while she fell apart. It was freedom. And though the price had been steep—her mother was in a vegetative state, she was a divorcée, and her bank account was dwindling—she felt she could breathe more easily now than at any point in the last five years.
Emily swiped her MetroCard at the turnstile. The subway car was crowded. She grabbed a handrail and stood. The train rattled and the darkness of the tunnel flashed past the window. She looked down at her phone. She had long since left the family group chat, blocked Kevin’s number, and blocked Eleanor’s number too. But today, a text had come through from an unknown number.
“Miss Davis, this is the legal representative for the Davis family. Mr. Kevin Davis would like to request a private mediation regarding some post-divorce matters.”
Emily skimmed the message and immediately hit delete. She wanted nothing more to do with those people. The subway stopped. She climbed the stairs and walked out into the cold winter air. A thin layer of snow covered the entrance to her basement apartment. She unlocked the door and stepped into her small, dark, but personal sanctuary. She took off her jacket, boiled some water, and made a cup of instant coffee, black, no sugar.
She took the mug and stood by the window. The window was at ground level, so she could only see the feet of people passing by outside. Dress shoes, sneakers, high heels, winter boots—countless feet hurried past. Emily looked at the feet and let out a small laugh. Not a bitter laugh or a scornful one, just a light, simple laugh.
She thought back to her life with her in-laws. Waking up at 5:00 a.m. to prepare breakfast, only getting to eat after her mother-in-law and husband had finished. Dishes, cleaning, laundry, ironing, organizing the refrigerator. Her workday usually ended around 10:00 p.m. Back then, she thought she would live like that forever, trapped in that house, in the prison of being a daughter-in-law, brainwashed into believing she had to protect the family until she grew old and died.
But now she was free. Even though she was drinking instant coffee in a basement apartment, she could sleep in if she wanted, eat what she wanted, watch a movie at 2:00 a.m., and spend the entire weekend in bed without anyone saying a word. This was freedom. This was the taste of the air she had so desperately craved for the last five years.
Emily put down her coffee mug and picked up her phone. She opened a job search app. She needed to find work. She had to pay her mother’s bills, pay her rent, and most importantly, she had to live. She typed “Accountant Queens Full-time” into the search bar and hit enter. A long list of job postings appeared on the screen. She began to read through them one by one, carefully. Outside, the snow was starting to fall heavily. The footsteps of the people outside quickened. Emily didn’t look up; she just sat there quietly, focused on designing her future on the small screen of her phone.
