My Parents Banned Me From My Sister’s Wedding Untill She Opened My “Gift” And Scremed
The Confrontation with Mom
Three days later, my mother appeared. I was in my office reviewing proofs from a recent shoot when my receptionist buzzed.
“Ms. Wells, there’s a woman here to see you. She says she’s your mother.”
I closed my eyes for a moment, then I stood and walked to the lobby. Patricia Wells stood near the entrance, looking utterly out of place. She was dressed in her usual Chanel pearl earrings, silk blouse, perfectly coiffed hair, but her eyes were red-rimmed and uncertain.
She stared at the reception desk, at the awards on the walls, at the framed magazine covers featuring Everlight Studios.
“This is yours,” she said when she saw me. “All of this?”
“Yes.”
“You never told us. You never asked.”
She flinched.
I led her to my office and closed the door. She sat in the chair across from my desk, her hands folded tightly in her lap.
“I came to talk about what happened. I assumed you ruined your sister’s wedding.” Her voice cracked. “How could you do that to her?”
“I wasn’t at the wedding, Mom. I wasn’t invited.”
“You know what I mean. That stunt with the gift.”
I leaned back in my chair.
“I gave her Grandma Eleanor’s truth. The documents are real. The will is legal. Everything in that box was authentic.”
“But why? Why humiliate her in front of everyone?”
“I didn’t humiliate her. She humiliated herself.” I kept my voice steady. “She spent months bragging about jewelry that was never hers. She lied to her fiancé about me. She told everyone I was a failure.”
My mother’s face crumpled.
“Mom,” I leaned forward. “I spent 28 years being invisible to this family. I’m not asking for an apology. I’m just asking for honesty.”
She stared at me, and then, for the first time in my life, my mother actually looked at me.
My mother’s gaze traveled slowly around my office: the floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking downtown LA, the awards displayed on the shelves, industry recognitions, magazine features, a framed letter from a senator thanking me for documenting his daughter’s wedding. The photographs on the walls, each one a testament to a career built in silence.
Her eyes landed on a picture of me with Grandma Eleanor, taken at her 81st birthday. We were laughing about something, our heads tilted together. And then Patricia Wells began to cry. Not the delicate tears she produced at social events—real sobs, ugly and raw, shaking her whole body.
“We failed you,” she said between breaths. “I failed you. I didn’t move. I didn’t speak. I let her have the words.”
“Victoria always demanded so much. She was loud about what she wanted, what she needed. And you were just quiet. You never complained. You never asked for anything.” She wiped her face with trembling hands. “I thought that meant you were fine. I thought you didn’t need us.”
“I stopped needing you,” I said quietly, “because I knew you wouldn’t be there.”
She flinched like I’d struck her.
“I thought…” She struggled to compose herself. “I thought we were giving Victoria extra attention because she needed it more. But that wasn’t true, was it? She needed it because we taught her to need it. And you stopped needing because we taught you not to hope.”
I said nothing.
“Eleanor tried to tell me,” my mother’s voice was barely a whisper. “She said I was losing you. I didn’t listen. I thought she was being dramatic.” She looked at me with red eyes. “I don’t expect you to forgive me, Myra, but I needed you to know I see it now. I see what I did.”
I let the silence hold. Then I nodded. It wasn’t forgiveness, but it was a start.
