My Parents Invested $500K Retirement Savings In Sister’s Startup—She Blamed Dad Moment FBI Arrived
The Apology
One year after Thanksgiving, my phone buzzed with a text from an unblocked number. “Mom: Can you call me when you have a moment? I don’t need anything. I just want to talk.”
I stared at that message for two hours before responding. The call was awkward. Long silences, false starts. But something was different.
“I’m not calling to ask for money,” Mom said first thing. “I want you to know that.”
“Okay.”
“I’ve been going to a therapist. Your father thinks it’s a waste, but…” She laughed weakly. “I think I needed someone to help me see what I couldn’t see on my own.”
“And what’s that?”
“How much I failed you.” Her voice broke. “I’ve been going through old photos. Your graduation. I wasn’t there, Bridget. My daughter’s valedictorian speech. And I wasn’t there because Meredith had an audition.”
“I remember.”
“How do you remember without hating me?”
I thought about it. “I did hate you for a while. But hate is heavy, Mom. I got tired of carrying it.”
She cried then. Not the theatrical crying I’d grown up with, but something raw and ugly and real. “I’m sorry. I’m so sorry. Not because I want something from you. Because I owe you an apology I should have given years ago.”
I didn’t say it’s okay, because it wasn’t. But I said, “Thank you for saying that.”
“Can we try… to have something? I don’t expect you to forget. I just want a chance to do better.”
I watched the sunset through my lake house window. The water was golden, peaceful. “We can try,” I said slowly.
It wasn’t forgiveness. It wasn’t even trust. But it was a door left slightly open. That would have to be enough for now.
The Prison Visit
18 months after the arrest, I drove to Alderson Federal Prison Camp in West Virginia. I don’t know what made me go. Curiosity, maybe. Or the need for closure that therapy kept telling me I deserved. Or maybe just the simple fact that despite everything, Meredith was still my sister.
The visiting room was fluorescent-lit and depressing. Meredith shuffled in wearing khaki scrubs, no makeup, her hair pulled back in a limp ponytail. She looked nothing like the woman in the red dress who’d descended my parents’ staircase.
“Why are you here?” No preamble. Same old Meredith.
“I don’t know,” I admitted. “I just needed to see you.”
She sat across from me, hands flat on the table. “Come to gloat?”
“No.”
“Liar.”
“Meredith, if I wanted to gloat, I’d have come 18 months ago. I’m here because I have a question.”
She raised an eyebrow.
“Was it really Dad’s idea? Or did you just say that because you were scared?”
For a long moment, she didn’t answer. Then slowly, the mask cracked. “Both.” Her voice was barely a whisper. “He encouraged me. He helped with the reports. But I made the choice. I signed the documents. I took the money.”
She looked at her hands. “I’m not a victim, Bridget. I’m just a person who got caught.”
“That’s the first honest thing you’ve ever said to me.”
She laughed bitterly. “Prison gives you a lot of time to think.”
“What do you think about?”
“How I ended up here. How I spent my whole life performing and never actually being anything real.” She met my eyes. “How you were always the one who was actually okay.”
We sat in silence. Not sisters, exactly, but maybe finally something like honest.
