My Parents Planned a Luxury Wedding for My Sister, Then Expected Me to Pay for It
“What is it now?”
“Just come, sweetheart. It’s important.”
I knew better than to ignore her, so after work, I drove to the house again. It was my house, though I never called it that out loud.
The second I walked through the door, I knew I was in trouble. Emma was already there, practically vibrating with excitement.
In front of her was a binder stuffed with magazine clippings, fabric swatches, and what looked like a novel’s worth of notes. Before I even sat down, she launched into her grand vision.
“So, I planned everything out perfectly!”
She gushed, flipping through pages covered in extravagant wedding ideas.
“The venue even has this amazing garden with a fountain, and they do this thing where they release hundreds of white doves right after the ceremony!”
My stomach clenched.
“That sounds expensive.”
Emma barely acknowledged my concern.
“Oh, and I found the perfect band! They played at a celebrity’s wedding last year. Isn’t that amazing?”
I tried to keep my voice neutral.
“Emma, did you set a budget for any of this?”
“Of course!”
She chirped and proudly handed me a sheet of paper. The moment my eyes landed on the numbers, my heart nearly stopped.
The venue alone cost more than my annual rent. The doves, the band, the premium catering, the ice sculptures, the designer dress—it was insane.
“Are you joking?”
I blurted out, my voice coming out sharper than I intended. Emma snatched the paper back and frowned.
“No. Why would I be joking?”
I let out a short laugh, one that wasn’t remotely amused.
“Emma, this is more than some people spend on a house down payment.”
That was when the waterworks started. Her face crumpled, and within seconds, she was sobbing.
“You’re just jealous!”
She wailed.
“Jealous because your boyfriend cheated on you and now you’re alone!”
“Tracy!”
Mom snapped, glaring at me like I was the villain.
“How dare you upset your sister like this?”
I took a deep breath, forcing myself to stay calm.
“Look, I’ve already been helping a lot. I’m paying for Emma’s college, her living expenses, even her clothes.”
Mom cut me off with a scoff.
“Oh, here we go. Now, if you’re going to throw that in her face—that’s what family does, Tracy. We help each other.”
“You’re just fulfilling your duties as a big sister.”
I stared at her, stunned.
“Duties?”
I repeated.
“Mom, I have been financially supporting Emma for years while she refuses to take anything seriously. And now you’re asking me to fund a luxury wedding? Do you even hear yourselves?”
“You can afford it!”
Emma shot back, her tears miraculously drying as she crossed her arms.
“You make good money now.”
“That doesn’t mean I have to spend it on this.”
Emma’s eyes darkened, her lips curling in frustration. Then she threw out the line I should have seen coming.
“Fine. I’ll ask Daddy instead.”
Her words hit like a slap, but I kept my expression blank. Emma had always referred to my stepfather as “Daddy,” even though he hadn’t been in her life for years.
It was her last-ditch effort to make me feel replaced, to make me feel like I was the bad guy. I grabbed my coat and headed for the door.
“I’m not paying for this wedding.”
I said firmly. Emma exploded.
“You selfish scum!”
She shrieked, practically stomping her feet like a toddler.
“I hope you die alone!”
I slammed the door behind me, but not before I heard my mother’s voice, soft and soothing.
“Don’t worry, sweetie. Your sister has always been difficult. We’ll figure something out.”
Of course she would, because in this family, Emma was always the victim and I was always the villain.
A Father’s Validation
For two whole weeks, my life was blissfully quiet. No calls from mom, no guilt trips, no Emma throwing tantrums.
For the first time in years, I actually got to focus on my work without being dragged into their endless drama. Then my phone rang.
I glanced at the screen and nearly did a double take. It was my stepfather.
We hadn’t talked in a while, but we had always maintained a decent relationship. Curious, I answered.
“Tracy, got a minute?”
His voice was calm, but there was a weight behind it.
“Of course. What’s up?”
He let out a dry chuckle.
“Your mother and Emma came to see me.”
I sighed, already knowing where this was going.
“Let me guess: they asked you to pay for Emma’s wedding.”
“Oh, they did more than ask.”
He said, his tone laced with amusement.
“They showed me the budget, Tracy. I nearly fell out of my chair. White ice sculptures? A celebrity band? What the hell are they thinking?”
Despite everything, I laughed. For the first time in weeks, I actually laughed.
“Welcome to my world.”
“Emma never worked a day in her life.”
He continued, exasperated.
“She’s still in college, which by the way, I found out you’re paying for. And now she wants a wedding that costs more than my first house?”
“Yep. And your mother had the audacity to act like this was normal.”
“Oh, she didn’t just act like it was normal.”
I said, shaking my head.
“She made it sound like it was my duty to fund it, like I owe them.”
My stepfather sighed.
“I told them absolutely not. Emma may be my daughter, but I’m not going to encourage this entitled behavior. If she wants a wedding, she can get a job and pay for it herself.”
For the first time since this entire fiasco started, I felt seen.
“So I’m not crazy for thinking this is absurd?”
I asked, half-joking, but also needing to hear it from someone else.
“Not even a little.”
He reassured me.
“Tracy, you’ve done more than enough. Your mother and Emma have taken advantage of you for years. It’s time for them to grow up.”
Hearing those words from him—someone who had been in our family for a decade—made something inside me loosen.
I had spent so much of my life feeling like the unreasonable one, the selfish one, just because I had boundaries. But now, I knew I wasn’t alone in seeing the truth.
We talked for a little while longer, sharing our frustrations and laughing at the absurdity of it all.
When I hung up, I felt lighter than I had in a long time. For the first time, I didn’t feel guilty; I felt validated.
The “Brilliant” Solution
A week after my conversation with my stepfather, I had almost convinced myself that the worst was over. They had exhausted all their options, or so I thought.
Then one evening, just as I was settling in after a long day at work, there was a knock at my door.
I knew even before I opened it. And sure enough, there they were.
My mother and Emma were standing outside my apartment like two saleswomen with a pitch I didn’t want to hear.
“Tracy, sweetheart…”
Mom’s voice was sugary sweet, which meant trouble.
“We’ve been thinking, and we realized you were right. The wedding budget was a little high.”
“A little?”
I asked dryly, crossing my arms. Emma stepped forward, smiling way too brightly.
“So we made some adjustments!”
She thrust a new piece of paper at me.
“Look, we cut down the guest list, canceled the doves, even found a cheaper band.”
I hesitated before glancing at the paper. The numbers were still outrageous.
