My Sister Mocked My Gift And Called My Son “Damaged.” He Responded By Exposing Her Husband’s Secret Second Family During Her Baby Shower Toast. Who Is Incomplete Now?
“I remembered everything, baby. We’re going to be perfect guests.” I said .
The garden room had been transformed into what looked like a Pinterest board come to life. Pink and gold balloons formed an arch over the gift table where presents were already piled high.
Mason jars wrapped in lace held pink roses and baby’s breath, and a banner reading “A little princess is on the way” stretched across one wall in glittering letters. There were even those elaborate centerpieces on each table, the kind with floating candles and pearls that probably cost more than my weekly grocery budget.
About forty guests were already mingling when we walked in, their voices creating a buzz of excitement and anticipation. I recognized most of them immediately.
There was Mrs. Peterson from Mom’s church wearing her Sunday best even though it was Saturday. Mike’s mother, Gloria, was holding court near the dessert table, her thick Connecticut accent carrying across the room as she told anyone who would listen about how excited she was to finally be a grandmother.
Nia’s book club friends clustered together near the windows, all of them in sundresses that looked coordinated without being too obvious about it.
“Remember what we talked about,” I whispered to Devon as we paused at the entrance.
“If anyone says anything that makes you uncomfortable, just squeeze my hand twice and we’ll take a break outside.” I said .
“I know Mom, but I’m okay. We’re okay,” he said with such conviction that I almost believed him.
I almost forgot that last week he’d come home from school asking why his cousin-to-be would have something he didn’t: a dad. My relationship with Nia had always been complicated, shaped by years of comparison and competition I never asked to be part of.
Growing up, she was the straight-A student who made the honor roll every semester without trying. I was the B student who stayed up until midnight to pull my grades up.
She was the one who dated the captain of the football team and went to prom in a dress that made her look like a princess. I went with a group of friends and left early to watch movies at someone’s house.
She married Mike in a ceremony with two hundred guests and a reception at this very country club. I married Troy in a courthouse wedding with just our parents and his sister as witnesses.
But here’s what the family photos didn’t show: I was happy in my simple life until Troy’s addiction turned it into a nightmare. Nia might have had the big wedding, but I’d had real love, at least for a while.
When that love turned toxic, I had the strength to leave. That had to count for something, even if my family didn’t see it that way.
Mom greeted us at the door with her practiced smile, the one she used for church functions and family photos. She was wearing a new dress, pale yellow with tiny flowers, and her hair had been professionally styled that morning.
“Ree, you made it,” she said as if there had been any question.
“And Devon, don’t you look handsome,” she said leaning in closer, lowering her voice so only I could hear.
“Try to be happy for your sister today. This is her moment. Don’t ruin it with any of your drama.” she said .
My drama. As if existing as a divorced single mother was something I performed rather than simply lived.
The Hand-Stitched Insult
The trouble started during the gift opening, though looking back I should have seen it building from the moment we sat down. Nia was center stage, positioned in a throne-like chair decorated with ribbons and miniature baby bottles.
She glowed in her floral maternity dress, a designer piece she’d made sure to mention cost eight hundred dollars when she’d shown it to me last week. Mike stood behind her chair, his hands possessively placed on her shoulders, playing the part of the devoted husband like he was auditioning for a commercial.
“Oh, this one’s from cousin Janet!” Nia squealed holding up a silver box tied with an enormous bow.
She made a show of opening each gift, holding items up for everyone to admire while her friend Bethany dutifully wrote down who gave what for the thank you cards. There was a designer breast pump from Mike’s mother and a thousand-dollar stroller system from her book club.
Each gift was more expensive than the last, turning the whole event into some kind of wealth parade. Then she got to mine.
“This one’s from Ree,” she announced her voice changing just slightly, like she was preparing the audience for disappointment.
I watched her open the gift bag slowly, pulling out the tissue paper piece by piece. When she finally revealed the quilt I’d spent two months creating, working on it every night after Devon went to bed, she held it up with two fingers like it might be contaminated.
“How crafty,” she said the word “crafty” sounding like an insult in her mouth.
“You always were good with your hands. Had to be, raising Devon alone and all.” she said .
The room shifted uncomfortably; a few people chuckled, that nervous laughter people do when they’re not sure if something’s meant to be funny or cruel. I felt Devon tense beside me, his fork stopping halfway to his mouth with a piece of cake he’d been enjoying.
“Each square has a different nursery rhyme,” I said trying to keep my voice steady.
“I embroidered them all by hand. The back is made from organic cotton that’s hypoallergenic.” I said .
“How thoughtful,” Nia continued folding the quilt carelessly and setting it aside, far from the pile of approved gifts.
“Well, we can’t all afford to shop at Bergdorf’s. Some of us have to be creative with our limitations.” she said .
“Actually, handmade gifts are often more valuable than store-bought ones,” Devon said quietly.
Everyone turned to look at him.
“That quilt probably took over a hundred hours to make. At minimum wage, that would be worth more than most of these presents.” he said .
