My Son-in-law Is Waiting For Me To Die To Inherit My $600k Home. He Doesn’t Know I Overheard His Entire Plan. Am I The Jerk For Setting A Trap To Get Him Arrested?
“I loved him,” she gasped. “I really thought he loved me.”
“I know, baby. I know.”
“How could I be so blind?”
“He was very good at making himself believable. That’s not your fault.”
We ordered Thai food and sat on the couch, not eating much, just being together. Rachel told me things she’d been hiding.
She told me how Tyler had told her I was getting dementia and how he’d said I was jealous of their marriage. He’d convinced her that my concern was actually me trying to control her life.
“I stopped calling Amanda because he said she was putting ideas in my head about him. I stopped book club because he said I was using it to avoid him. I felt guilty all the time, like I wasn’t being a good wife.”
“You were being a good person,” I told her. “He weaponized that against you.”
Around 9:00, Tyler started calling her phone. She’d blocked him on Helen’s advice, so the calls didn’t come through, but her phone kept lighting up with voicemail notifications.
“Should I listen to them?” she asked.
“Not tonight,” I said. “Tonight you rest. Everything else can wait.”
We fell asleep on the couch, my daughter curled up against me like she used to during scary movies when she was eight. I didn’t sleep deeply, jerking awake at every sound, half expecting Tyler to break in.
But he didn’t come—not that night. The locksmith arrived at 8:00 a.m. the next morning.
By 9:00, every lock in the house had been changed, and I had new keys that Tyler couldn’t possibly have copied. Rachel had the day off.
We spent it going through the house, packing up Tyler’s belongings. It felt therapeutic, putting his life into boxes.
We packed all his gaming equipment, his clothes, his protein powders, and energy drinks. All evidence of his presence was contained and ready to be removed.
Helen arrived at noon with an update.
“The restraining order was approved—both yours and Rachel’s. He can’t come within a hundred yards of either of you. We’ve arranged for him to pick up his belongings from a storage unit, not from your house. He’s been notified.”
“How did he take it?” Rachel asked quietly.
“About as well as you’d expect. Lots of threats about lawyers and lawsuits. But Mrs. Hayes, you’re on very solid legal ground. He has no claim to your house, your assets, or anything else. And Rachel, you’ll want to file for divorce as soon as possible.”
Rachel nodded, looking numb.
“Yeah, I figured.”
The divorce papers were filed three days later. Tyler contested nothing, probably because he knew he had no leg to stand on.
It was finalized in six weeks, unusually fast, but Helen knew the right people and filed under emotional abuse statutes that expedited the process. Tyler tried to contact Rachel twice more, both times violating the restraining order.
The second time, Officer Mendes arrested him. He spent two nights in jail and paid a fine.
After that, he disappeared from our lives completely. We heard through mutual acquaintances that he’d moved to Seattle, supposedly working in tech sales.
Two months later, Rachel ran into an old friend who mentioned that Tyler was engaged to a woman whose elderly mother owned a large house in Queen Anne. The pattern was repeating.
“Should we warn her?” Rachel asked me.
“Would she listen?” I asked gently.
Rachel thought about it, then shook her head sadly.
“I wouldn’t have.”
“Then we let it go. We can’t save everyone, honey. We can only save ourselves.”
It’s been four months now since that day with the crowbar. Rachel moved her things back into her old bedroom, the one she’d had growing up.
She says it’s temporary, that she’s saving for her own place, but I secretly hope she stays a little longer. I’ve missed having her here.
She’s in therapy now, working through the manipulation and emotional abuse. She’s reconnected with Amanda and her other friends.
She signed up for a painting class, something she’d loved in college but given up because Tyler said it was a waste of money. Last week she laughed at a joke on TV—a real, genuine laugh—and I realized I hadn’t heard her laugh like that in over a year.
As for me, I’m sleeping better. My house feels like mine again.
I have my routines back, my space, my peace. The dining room is a dining room again, not an office.
The living room furniture is arranged the way I like it. I can watch what I want on TV without someone complaining.
But more than that, I have my daughter back—not the anxious, exhausted shell Tyler had molded her into, but Rachel, my strong, compassionate, brilliant daughter who deserves so much better than what she got.
She started dating again, very casually. She tells me about every date and asks my opinion.
Last night, after she came home from coffee with a resident from the hospital, she flopped on the couch next to me.
“He was nice,” she said. “Maybe too nice. Is that a thing? Can someone be too nice?”
“Nice is good,” I told her. “But watch for consistent behavior, not just charm. Does he show up when he says he will? Does he respect your boundaries? Does he have his own life, his own friends, his own interests? Those are the things that matter.”
