My Wife Laughed At A Love Letter I Received And Called Her Family To Join In. She Called Me “Damaged Goods” To Her Sisters. Now She Is Begging For Spousal Support While My Lawyer Destroys Her In Court.
The Breaking Point
Her family was still on the phone suggesting theories.
“Maybe she’s doing a documentary on desperate men.”
“Maybe it’s a sociology experiment on how low attractive women will go.”
“Maybe she has brain damage.”
Lisa suddenly gasped.
“I bet she doesn’t know you’re married. You took off your ring, didn’t you? You’re tricking her.”
I showed my ring still on my finger.
“She knows I’m married. She said she waited 2 years hoping things would change but couldn’t stay quiet anymore.”
Lisa was getting angry now.
“You probably lied to her. Told her I’m abusive or cold. Made yourself the victim.”
“I never talked about my marriage at work.”
I pulled away and got my phone.
“Maybe Caroline sees something you never bothered to look for.”
Lisa laughed.
“There’s nothing to see. Your wallpaper. Background noise. A placeholder human. You’re what women settle for when they give up on life.”
I grabbed Caroline’s letter and walked toward the door.
“Where are you going?”
Lisa demanded.
“To thank Caroline for being the first person in 15 years to say something kind to me.”
Lisa screamed with laughter.
“Kind? She pities you. When she sees you up close in real light, she’ll run. Your weird shaped head, your uneven ears, that thing you do with your mouth when you think. The way you walk like a broken robot. She’ll be disgusted.”
But Caroline wasn’t disgusted. She smiled when she saw me. Said I had kind eyes, gentle hands, a warm smile. Things Lisa said didn’t exist.
Finding a Way Out
When I filed for divorce, Lisa brought her entire family to court.
“Your honor, he can’t leave me. Look at him. Then look at me. Even at my worst, I’m better than his best. He’ll die alone and unloved without me.”
The judge stared at her.
“Ma’am, that’s not how divorce works.”
I woke up the next morning in a hotel room that smelled like stale air and cleaning products. The sheets were scratchy and the pillow was too flat, but I’d slept better than I had in months. I grabbed my phone off the nightstand and saw 17 missed calls from Lisa and 12 voicemails.
I called work and told them I was sick. My voice sounded hollow when I said it, but my boss didn’t ask questions. I spent the next two hours sitting on the edge of the bed researching divorce attorneys on my phone.
Lisa kept calling. I didn’t answer, but I listened to the voicemails. The first three were her screaming about how I was being dramatic and needed to come home immediately. The next four switched to mocking laughter about how pathetic I looked leaving with Caroline’s letter.
The rest alternated between rage and more laughter. By noon, Lisa had started texting me photos of herself with captions about how no one else would ever want me. She sent a selfie with the caption, “This is what you’re giving up for what exactly?”
Then another one: “You think Caroline will want you when she sees you in daylight?”
The messages kept coming. She sent me a voice message where she was laughing so hard she could barely talk about how I’d looked walking out the door clutching Caroline’s letter like it was some kind of treasure.
I sat there on the hotel bed holding my phone, and something inside me just broke open. Not in a bad way, in a way that felt like I could finally breathe. I found Jeremy Wallace’s office online and called to make an appointment.
